Becoming Her is about coming back to yourself
with a sisterhood of support.
A place to trust yourself more deeply, reclaim what you want, strengthen your relationships, and become more fully yourself.
$67/month • Cancel anytime
WOMEN NEED WOMEN.
Which is why women need circles.
Not more followers. Not more surface-level friendships.
Not another place where we have to show up polished, positive, productive, or pretending that we've got it all figured out.
We need places where we can say:
"I'm struggling with this."
"I don't know what I want anymore."
"I'm scared to have this conversation."
"I know something needs to change."
"Does anyone else do this?"
And hear another woman say, "Me too."
That's what Circles of Women was created to provide.
A place to be supported.
A place to practice.
A place to grow.
A place to belong.
A place to become.
YOU'VE SPENT A LOT OF YEARS BECOMING WHO EVERYONE NEEDED YOU TO BE.
A good daughter.
Partner.
Mother.
Friend.
Employee.
Caregiver.
Helper.
Peacekeeper.
Responsible one.
Strong one.
You've gotten pretty damn good at figuring out what everyone else needs.
But somewhere along the way, it can become harder to hear one particular voice:
Your own.
What do I want?
What feels true for me?
What am I tolerating that no longer fits?
What do I need?
What do I know that I keep second-guessing?
Who am I when I'm not busy being who everyone else needs me to be?
Becoming Her is a place to start listening again.
YOU DON'T NEED TO REINVENT YOURSELF.
You don't need a whole new you.
You don't need another self-improvement project.
And you certainly don't need someone else telling you who you're supposed to become.
Maybe this chapter is about something different.
Reclaiming.
Reclaiming your voice.
Your wants.
Your boundaries.
Your relationships.
Your confidence.
Your friendships.
Your choices.
Your knowing.
Yourself.
Not becoming someone else.
Becoming more of who you already are.
WHAT IF YOU TRUSTED YOURSELF MORE?
Imagine what might change:
- You stop replaying every conversation.
- You say no without drafting an explanation.
- You ask for what you actually want.
- You stop assuming everyone else knows more.
- You recognize an old pattern before it takes over.
- You stop avoiding difficult conversations.
- You choose relationships that feel mutual.
- You allow yourself to change your mind.
- You make decisions based on what fits you.
- You let someone be disappointed rather than sacrificing yourself.
And maybe, little by little, you stop looking outside yourself for permission to live your own life.
That's self-trust. And it's one of the most important things we practice here.
BUT HERE'S THE THING ABOUT PERSONAL GROWTH...
We weren't meant to do all of it alone.
You can read the book. Listen to the podcast. Journal. Meditate. Take the course.
And all of those things can be incredibly helpful.
But something different happens when you sit in a circle with other women.
- You hear your own experience in someone else's story.
- You realize the thing you've secretly been ashamed of isn't yours alone.
- Someone asks a question you didn't know you needed to answer.
- You say something out loud that you've only ever thought.
- You practice a boundary.
- You allow yourself to be seen.
- You witness another woman choose herself—and suddenly wonder if you could do the same.
Circle turns personal growth into something we experience together.
BECOMING HER IS FOR YOU IF...
- You're craving deeper, more authentic relationships with other women.
- You're tired of second-guessing yourself.
- You're trying to figure out what you want in this chapter of your life.
- You've gotten really good at taking care of everyone else and aren't always sure what you need.
- You want stronger boundaries without becoming hard or disconnected.
- You notice yourself people-pleasing, avoiding conflict, overthinking, perfectionizing, shutting down, or repeating patterns you know aren't serving you.
- You want to communicate more honestly.
- You want to feel more comfortable asking for what you need.
- You want to trust yourself instead of constantly looking outside yourself for reassurance.
- You're navigating changes in relationships, family, career, friendship, identity, or purpose.
- You want practical tools—not just inspirational quotes.
And maybe most of all...
You want women in your life who are willing to have the real conversations too.
INTRO OFFER: Only $67 a month
YOUR MONTHLY RHYTHM:
WEEK 1: Coaching Circle
Bring what's happening in your life and receive coaching, perspective, and support.
WEEK 2: Connection Circle
Come together simply to connect, share, listen, and experience circle.
WEEK 3: Coaching Circle
Another opportunity for real-life coaching and mentoring.
WEEK 4: Becoming Her Skills Circle
Explore and practice the month's personal-growth skill together.
Plus your monthly Becoming Her Guide to explore whenever and however it supports you.
Simple enough to fit into your life.
Deep enough to change how you live it.
WHAT'S INCLUDED IN BECOMING HER?
(Our 4 Pillars of Support)
This isn't a course you have to finish.
It's not another thing to keep up with.
It's an ongoing place to come back to yourself.
Every month gives you several different ways to do that.
COACHING CIRCLES
Bring your real life.
At least twice each month, we gather for live group coaching and mentoring.
Bring the thing you're actually dealing with:
- The conversation you're avoiding.
- The decision you can't make.
- The boundary you're afraid to set.
- The resentment you can't shake.
- The friendship that feels weird.
- The relationship pattern you're finally noticing.
- The career question.
- The family situation.
- The "I don't even know why this is bothering me so much" moment.
We'll slow it down, get curious about what's underneath it, and help you find the next step that feels true for you.
You'll receive coaching when you need it.
But you'll also learn by witnessing other women.
Because someone else's question has a funny way of unlocking something in us too.
SKILLS CIRCLES
Personal growth is a lot more useful when you can use it on a random Tuesday.
Each month, we explore one practical skill that helps us become more confident, connected, and self-trusting women.
Topics include things like:
- Self-Trust
- Boundaries
- Patterns
- The Art of Repair
- Communication
- Accountability
- Conflict
- Asking for What You Want
- Emotional Resilience
- Relationships
We don't just talk about these skills. We practice them.
Through guided reflection, visualization, exercises, conversation, ritual, and real-life tools, you get a chance to experience what you're learning instead of simply understanding it intellectually.
SHARING & SUPPORT CIRCLES
Sometimes you don't need another lesson.
You need women.
A place to show up. A place to talk honestly. A place to listen. A place to laugh. A place to say what's actually happening. A place where nobody is waiting for her turn to give you advice. A place to hear, "Me too."
Our circles are spaces to pause, connect, reflect, be witnessed, and build relationships with women doing their own work alongside you.
There is no pressure to share. No performing. No fixing each other. No need to have the right answer.
Come exactly as you are.
YOUR BECOMING HER GUIDE
Each month, you'll receive a guide built around our current skill or theme. Depending on the month, it might include:
- Teachings and reflections
- Journal prompts
- Exercises
- Visualizations
- Practices
- Rituals
- Experiments to try in real life
- Questions to bring into circle
Use all of it. Use one page. Ignore it for three months and discover exactly what you need when you come back to it later.
This isn't homework.
It's a growing library of tools for navigating your life.
BONUS: UNLOCKING AUTHENTIC SELF-LOVE
When you join Becoming Her, you'll also receive my complete Unlocking Authentic Self-Love program.
Because self-love isn't just bubble baths, affirmations, or convincing yourself you're amazing.
It's learning how to stay on your own side.
- Especially when you screw up.
- Especially when someone is disappointed in you.
- Especially when your inner critic has a LOT to say.
- Especially when you're changing.
Included with your Becoming Her membership.
AND YOU DON'T HAVE TO "KEEP UP."
Seriously. There is no falling behind here.
Life gets busy. You travel. Work explodes. Your kids need you. Your parents need you. You need you.
Or you simply have a month when introspection sounds substantially less appealing than Netflix.
Come back when you're ready. Attend the circles that support you.
Use the resources you need. Leave the rest.
This isn't another obligation.
It's a place to return to.
WHY CIRCLE?
Because there's a difference between knowing something and practicing it in relationship.
You can understand boundaries perfectly... until someone gets mad at yours.
You can believe your needs matter... until asking for something makes you uncomfortable.
You can know you shouldn't people-please... until someone you love is disappointed.
You can read about vulnerability... and still be terrified to let someone actually see you.
Circle gives us somewhere to practice.
To speak.
To listen.
To be witnessed.
To disagree.
To repair.
To ask.
To receive.
To set boundaries.
To take up space.
To let other women take up space too.
The circle becomes the practice ground for the woman you're becoming.
WHAT OTHER WOMEN HAVE GOTTEN FROM THESE CIRCLES:
CONFIDENCE.
How you show up for yourself.
We explore self-trust, your inner critic, overthinking, emotional resilience, perfectionism, self-compassion, knowing what you want, and listening to your own wisdom.
Authentic confidence isn't believing you're fabulous every second.
It's like Helena, a participant, knowing:
"I can trust myself even when I'm uncomfortable, uncertain, messy, or still figuring things out."
CONNECTION.
How you show up in your relationships.
We practice boundaries, communication, conflict, repair, asking for what you need, vulnerability, friendship, belonging, and recognizing relationship patterns.
Because the goal isn't perfect relationships.
"It's learning how to stay connected to yourself while you're connected to others."
SELF-DIRECTION.
How you show up in your life.
Eventually all this self-trust starts changing the choices you make.
You begin asking:
- What matters to me now?
- What do I actually want?
- What am I ready to stop tolerating?
- Where am I waiting for permission?
- What do I know that I haven't been willing to admit?
- What would I choose if I trusted myself?
And then comes the really important part:
"I began feeling into and living my own answers."
THE POWER OF BEING WITNESSED.
There's something extraordinary about sitting with women who aren't trying to fix you.
- They aren't jumping in with, "Here's what you should do..."
- They aren't comparing your experience to theirs.
- They aren't telling you to look on the bright side.
- They listen.
- They witness.
- They make room.
And sometimes being fully heard is what finally allows you to hear yourself.
That's one of the most powerful things about circle.
"Nobody gives me my truth. They created enough space for me to hear it."
LOVE NOTES:
“I use the tools I've learned from Christina ALL THE TIME.”
“The tools I've learned have helped me at work—making me feel much more confident about myself, what I contribute, and where my power lies—and at home, allowing me to be more connected with myself and my husband.”
Kaui"Christina is excellent. She has a talent for getting me to dive deeper into who I am, and what my potential is. I have shifted my ability to construct boundaries in my marriage that helps in all life areas. I loved connecting with the group and seeing how people shift while working on what applies to them. "
Jamie"Christina is amazing, she is intuitive and empathic and knows just when to be tough and when to be soft, is very good at asking what kind of feedback I need. I felt a huge shift in my relationship with my partner, his mother, and my career. I'm ready for bigger and better things. The way is paved."
Erica“I suddenly heard myself saying, ‘I really like me. I wish there were more of me to hang out with.’”
“I've never been excited to be me and now I am.”
Kelly“I would say my life is completely transformed.”
“I catch the negative messages quickly and I’m overall more conscious about how I am thinking and feeling and why I do what I do. I feel empowered… I am also 100 times more accepting of myself overall.”
Helena“Just having a safe space to share… without judgment and surrounded by other supportive women working on the same things was amazing.”
KW"Christina is kind, compassionate, and gentle. She's a person who is able to see through people's feelings and emotions. Her feedback is on point, challenging, and assertive. My biggest shift was accepting myself for who I am and letting my guard down to welcome new people into my life. I've allowed myself to look deep into my feelings and emotions and make sense of them."
IngridHi! I'm Christina!
And I believe women need circles.
Not because we're incapable of figuring things out ourselves.
Quite the opposite.
I believe women already carry an incredible amount of wisdom.
But it's hard to hear our own knowing underneath decades of expectations, responsibilities, relationships, conditioning, and all the voices telling us what we should do.
Circle gives us somewhere to quiet the noise.
Over the years, I've led hundreds of circles and watched something happen again and again:
Women come in believing they need an answer.
And when they're given enough space, safety, curiosity, and support...
They often discover they already know.
That's why my work isn't about telling women how to live their lives.
It's about creating spaces where women can reconnect with themselves—and giving them practical tools to navigate whatever comes next.
Big shifts don't always require dramatic changes.
Sometimes they begin with:
- A different question.
- A boundary.
- A new perspective.
- A hard conversation.
- A moment of self-compassion.
- A decision to stop abandoning yourself just to keep somebody else comfortable.
Those small shifts change lives.
And we practice them here.
xoxo, Christina
THIS ISN'T "JUST THINK POSITIVE" COACHING.
Thank goodness.
You are allowed to be angry.
Sad.
Confused.
Jealous.
Disappointed.
Scared.
Over it.
Human.
We're not trying to eliminate uncomfortable emotions or slap an affirmation over them.
We get curious.
We listen.
We learn.
And we build the skills to experience those emotions without letting them run the entire damn show.
The goal isn't to become endlessly positive.
It's to become someone you trust again.
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
Do I have to attend everything live?
No. Becoming Her is meant to support your life, not take it over.
Come to the sessions that support you most and use the materials at your own pace.
There is no falling behind.
Do I have to share in circle?
Absolutely not. You are invited to share, never required.
Sometimes participating means talking.
Sometimes it means witnessing.
Both matter.
I've never been in a women's circle. Is that okay?
Absolutely.
You don't need to know anything about circles before you come.
We'll guide you through the experience.
Do I need to be interested in becoming a facilitator?
Not at all. Becoming Her is the participation side of Circles of Women.
It's for women who want coaching, community, personal growth, deeper relationships, and the experience of being in circle.
If you eventually become interested in facilitating, wonderful.
If you never want to lead a circle in your life, you're still exactly where you belong.
Is this religious?
No. Our circles are non-religious and inclusive.
We may use visualization, intention, reflection, or simple ritual, but you are always encouraged to interpret those practices in whatever way feels authentic to you.
Is this therapy?
No. Becoming Her is coaching, education, personal growth, skill-building, and community. It isn't a replacement for mental health treatment or therapy.
What if I don't know what I want yet?
Perfect.
You don't need a five-year plan.
You don't even need to know what needs to change.
Sometimes the first step is simply creating enough quiet to hear yourself again.
Will the price go up?
Yes - but not for you, if you sign up now.
The $67 per month is an intro price! Once we hit 30 women and add more circles, the price will go up to $97. However, if you sign up while the price is $67, you'll lock that price in for as long as you stay in the circle.
Can I press pause if life gets, lifey?
Yes you can.
We allow a one-time pause without impacting your membership pricing for up to 60 days.
Outside of that, you are welcome to leave and come back as often as you like. However, when you return, you'll be paying the current pricing. This means if you get in now with the founding offer pricing, you would lose that pricing once the fee goes to $97.
WHAT WOULD CHANGE IF YOU TRUSTED YOURSELF?
What conversation would you finally have?
What would you stop apologizing for?
What boundary would you set?
What would you ask for?
Who would you spend more time with?
What would you stop tolerating?
What would you finally allow yourself to want?
What do you already know?
YOU DON'T HAVE TO BECOME A WHOLE NEW WOMAN.
Maybe you just need a circle that helps you hear the woman who's already there.
BECOMING HER
A Circles of Women Membership
Coaching Circles
Connection Circles
Becoming Her Skills Circles
Monthly Becoming Her Guides
Community
Practical Tools
Real Women
Real Conversations
$67/month
Cancel anytime.
Your rate stays locked in for as long as you remain a member.
The price will go to the regular $97 once we hit 30 founding members.
WOMEN NEED CIRCLES.
Come experience the circle.
And if someday you decide you're ready...
We'll teach you how to hold one too.
Be gentle with your humanness.
xoxo,
Christina